Saturday, October 23, 2010

What Can It Hurt?

Finally brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble,
whatever things are just, whatever things are pure,
whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report,
if there is any virtue, if there is anything praiseworthy-meditate on these things.
The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me,
these do, and the God of peace will be with you.
-Philippians 4:8-9

The hit TV show "Glee!" seems harmless, right? A series about a high school glee club. Okay, so the cheerleader is pregnant out of wedlock and the teacher's wife fakes a pregnancy to stay married to him while he is lusting after another maybe not so harmless. Then there are the photos. A recent photo shoot (no I will not post any of them nor a link to them...if you must see, then I am sure you can search and get plenty of hits) for GQ Magazine of the cast of Glee! has caused some amount of controversy. The photos are of the scantily-clad cast (at least the ladies are scantily-clad) in provocative and compromising poses. The argument is that these are not high school students in real life, they are actors and actresses in their mid-twenties and that gives them the right to do whatever they want with respect to posing and wardrobe, what can it hurt?

So we ask our tween and teen children to believe that these are peers, kids their own age, when watching the show....but then expect that they will understand that they are really actors that are much older and are able to do things that are not appropriate for the characters they portray on TV.

I think we are overestimating the ability of 12-17 year old childrento be discerning and underestimating the influence these TV stars have on our children.

It makes me think, how often do we say "what does it hurt, just this one time?" or "it's not THAT bad." How bad does it have to be for us to say "STOP", "ENOUGH"? God makes it clear that we are to guard ourselves from the influence of the world. We are to focus on noble and true. In a world that pushes young girls to grow up and dress older like small adults and value physical beauty and material things, we are called to keep our focus on Him and the treasures of heaven.

The wonderful thing is that this commandment comes with a promise...the peace of God! That is the beauty of our Lord and Savior, he demands much, but promises so much more than this world can ever give us.

So I challenge you to draw the line, to say "enough", to see that it DOES hurt, even just this once and it is THAT bad. Draw nearer to God and away from the world and enjoy the promise of peace!


  1. This is the very reason we turned off the TV 13 years ago! How can we or our children focus on all that is true, honest, just, pure, lovely and of good report when we fill our minds with all that is the opposite? I resisted at first when my husband suggested we get rid of the TV, but then he recommended we do a 30 day TV fast. You can read about this in my post "You Want to Do Away With WHAT?!" here:
    It sounds like you're definitely on the right path with your thinking! :)

  2. I have to confess that TV has definitely been a challenge for us. We went from digital/DVR/200+ channels to basic cable (about 70 channels) 8 months ago and I have been working my way to going down to just 15 channels which is the most basic. I finally called this week and did it and I have to say, it is nice to not be centered on the "boob tube" anymore! Thanks for the encouragement!